I used to suffer from social anxiety, low confidence and low self esteem among other things. It felt like the list never ended.
Oh? I have this too? Well add it to the collection then…
Spending time with people would throw me into an anxious mess. What should I say? What should I wear? What if I make a fool out of myself?
I couldn’t even meet up with my own friends without feeling anxious.
Presentations in front of people? Here comes the melt down…
I hated calling people.
I was always trying to please everyone.
I bailed on potential dates cause it was so scary.
I couldn’t say no to anything – even if I really wanted to.
If someone didn’t reply back quick enough I’d just think they hate me.
I was constantly stuck overthinking everything.
I just thought that’s just my personality. It’s just life. It’s just who I am.
I can’t change it.
Do you know what I do now?
I coach groups everyday. I love picking up the phone. I can not only talk to complete strangers, I actually enjoy my time meeting new people. I’m not stuck in my head 24/7 and stressful situations just bounce right off me.
I feel comfortable, in control and charismatic.
What’s the difference?
People often underestimate at how important confidence is but in reality it is the glue that holds everything together.
After experiencing life at both ends I felt like confidence was such a big game changer.
So I decided to help others who want the opportunity to enjoy their life and not be riddled with fear, anxiety and low self esteem.
Now I help people level up their confidence, self esteem and destroy their social anxiety.
It’s only by leveling up your confidence that you can truly level up your life.